Life?
I’ve been thinking a lot about life and the reason for my existence. This blog is just my mind seeking a platform to lay out its’ emotions.
I’m sure we all go through this at many time-points in our lives. Something we like to call mid-life or quarter-life crisis. I hear that we recover from this and move on. Lately i haven’t found my exit out of this crisis. What happens to us when we die? What is happening to us right now defining that we’re alive? Why does it hurt in a gut-wrentching way to see our loved ones die? How do we deal with guilt, pain, loss, betrayal, loneliness? Does it all ever get better or is this the best I can have it?
Those are just some of the umpteen questions that my mind asks in a span of 5 minutes. But what is my purpose in this life? Why was I put on this planet with the specific set of people that I was destined to meet? What could’ve happened if my parents never met? Would never have being born been a better option? Why wasn’t I given the option? Do we ever really get answers to these or just move on to the regularly-scheduled paths that we’re required to take in order to survive?
I remember as a kid, my grandad used to pick up his newspaper everyday and open the orbituary page first. I’d ask him why? He’d say, ” I just want to keep check on which one of my generation I’ve lost each day. You see one day I’ll end up on that page”. I picked up that habit from him until I stopped reading papers of course. When he died, naturally I frantically went through the papers in which it was published and wanted to look at him up there. This is my quirk now. Pick up a newspaper, go to the orbituary first. Why do we have these weird little quirks? What’s the point since we all return to dust one day anyway?
Life just seems like a waste of time. We all believe we’re in control of how we spend it, but in reality we’re just here to play a part that was already written for us. Some of us are dealt the personality to follow whereas the rest who simply have to have control over everything, will have trouble dealing with this fact. We keep imagining how we would’ve done things differently should we get a second chance. The fact is that I wouldn’t. I’ve come too far now to not want to see how it all unfolds. I want to see how the people I’ve met, end up in life. I also want to see how my own life turns out and to what end.
Just knowing that whatever is meant to happen, will most certainly happen, gives me a sense of zero control. But i’m okay with that now. I still question life mutiple times and have come too close to seeing it flash before my eyes. In time, I hope my purpose becomes clearer and I leave earth with a sense of knowing rather than not. Because as I’ve come to realize each day, “It’s much later than you think”.
– Shreyy.